I’ve been to three strip clubs, two in Kalamazoo and one in Portland. The girls in Portland were fairly cute and normal. They all had black hair, bangs, and tattoos. If you saw them in the daylight you’d assume they were hairstylists or waitresses. The strippers in Kalamazoo were the types of girls who snorted Ritalin in high school and mysteriously went missing for nine months because they “had mono.” I saw a girl I went to high school with at Angel’s Gentleman’s Club in Michigan. She had a daughter, maybe two, and was on coke. Actually it was probably meth; the farms and empty towns in between cities in the Midwest are littered with trailer park meth labs. It was uncomfortable to see her dancing around with a shirt on, I think my friends and I left after ten minutes.
I’ve never been to a Los Angeles strip club, nor do I have the desire to ever go. I’ve heard the girls are very typical for LA- fake boobs, tans, and lip liner. Those girls have their reasons for taking their clothes off in front of guys. I’m sure all of them either enjoy the attention, need money, do it for fun, or like taking advantage of men because their childhood was shitty. I don’t know them personally and I’m in no position to judge but from what I’ve heard from men those are the most popular motives.
Whenever I make stripper or prostitute jokes on twitter I get lambasted by girls with “xxx” in their name. I’m sorry @HottAmberXXX or whoever for joking about your job. I’m also really turned off by guys who befriend a shit ton of them on the internet. I don’t know what they’re getting out of it…tit pics? It sure as hell isn’t for their daily horoscope tweets or photos of them wearing glasses with the caption “I’m such a nerd xoxo.” Hey hot girls- stop doing that.
I feel like prostitutes are more emotionally damaged than strippers or porn stars. The thought of going to a different guy’s house every night and having sex with them without an emotional connection sounds horrendous. I’m a little obsessed with it because as hard as I try to understand that world and accept it, I can’t. There are plenty of girls who tell their boyfriends that they are into that, but I can’t help but assume some of them only do it to please their man.
Someone told me that 90% of men have at one point in their lives paid for some type of sex. Is this true? From listening to and reading things guys have said I’ve come to an understanding that men who like buying women are in it for the game and to feel power. Do they feel like more of a man because they are conquering a woman? Is it really as deep as that? Or are they just really fucking horny and lonely?
What is that side of a man’s personality that enjoys inviting over a hooker to pay for sex? Is that disrespectful towards women even though it’s their occupation? Is it just a fetish that you’re paying for something and therefore own her for that hour or two? I have no fucking idea. I do know that I will never understand that world.